Those stupid acronyms are relatively new anyway. And who the fuck cares about the GAY part, anyway?
I suspect the fgotus and gmotus are "First Gentleman OTUS" and "First Man OTUS", not specifying sexual orientation.
Ah, you're probably right. My mistake and my apologies.
No worries The only reason I suspect it's not referring to gay is because I had a similar discussion back when H. R. Clinton was running, trying to figure out what we'd call Bill.