Page 2 of 7 FirstFirst 1234 ... LastLast
Results 11 to 20 of 62

Thread: The heartbreaking reality of a teenage girl's sex life

  1. Top | #11
    Might be a replicant Emily Lake's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2014
    Location
    It's a desert out there
    Posts
    3,379
    Rep Power
    31
    Quote Originally Posted by Toni View Post
    Interesting. I would not have predicted that TSwizzle would show the most empathy.

    OTOH, I am not at all surprised that no one has suggested that boys need to be taught that girls have feelings and rights and the right to be not interested and in and out right objecting to being raped.

    What’s up with the shoulder shrug response to the rather horrible harassment and worse foisted on some pretty young girls?
    Seriously. I swear the world is far more misogynistic and oppressive toward women today than when I was a kid 40 years ago.

  2. Top | #12
    Might be a replicant Emily Lake's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2014
    Location
    It's a desert out there
    Posts
    3,379
    Rep Power
    31
    Quote Originally Posted by Politesse View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Tigers! View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Politesse View Post
    Heterosexuality should be outlawed.
    Tongue in cheek?
    Oh, I guess. But you must admit, a temporary ban would do wonders for women's rights. Male-female relationships sound incredibly violent and dangerous these days, just on the basis of the daily news.
    Are you being serious or are you mocking?

    I can't tell, and I'm currently angry at you from another thread, so I don't want to make an assumption about your intended tone.

  3. Top | #13
    Elder Contributor
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Location
    NOT laying back and thinking of England
    Posts
    12,464
    Archived
    3,655
    Total Posts
    16,119
    Rep Power
    57
    Quote Originally Posted by Politesse View Post
    Heterosexuality should be outlawed.
    Genuine question: Do gay teenage boys pressure other gay boys into doing sexual acts they’ve seen in porn? I’m talking high school age and younger? Is consent as blurry?

  4. Top | #14
    Elder Contributor
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Location
    NOT laying back and thinking of England
    Posts
    12,464
    Archived
    3,655
    Total Posts
    16,119
    Rep Power
    57
    Quote Originally Posted by Emily Lake View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Toni View Post
    Interesting. I would not have predicted that TSwizzle would show the most empathy.

    OTOH, I am not at all surprised that no one has suggested that boys need to be taught that girls have feelings and rights and the right to be not interested and in and out right objecting to being raped.

    What’s up with the shoulder shrug response to the rather horrible harassment and worse foisted on some pretty young girls?
    Seriously. I swear the world is far more misogynistic and oppressive toward women today than when I was a kid 40 years ago.
    I’m older than you, i believe, and I disagree somewhat. I think that these days, there are fewer social prohibitions about explicitly and publicly calling women and girls vulgar names, or vulgar terms for body parts. Porn is much more ubiquitous now and available very readily to anyone who has access to the internet. Unfortunately, kids are not well able to discern what is real and what is not on screens.

  5. Top | #15
    Sapere aude Politesse's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2018
    Location
    Chochenyo Territory, US
    Posts
    6,667
    Rep Power
    25
    Quote Originally Posted by Toni View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Politesse View Post
    Heterosexuality should be outlawed.
    Genuine question: Do gay teenage boys pressure other gay boys into doing sexual acts they’ve seen in porn? I’m talking high school age and younger? Is consent as blurry?
    I've no idea, really. When I was a teenager, coming out of the closet was risking death in short order. I can testify that the young people I know now have very dubious understandings of "consent".
    "Banish me from Eden when you will, but first let me eat of the tree of knowledge."

  6. Top | #16
    Veteran Member Tigers!'s Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2005
    Location
    On the wing waiting for a kick.
    Posts
    2,421
    Archived
    2,558
    Total Posts
    4,979
    Rep Power
    61
    Quote Originally Posted by Emily Lake View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Politesse View Post
    Heterosexuality should be outlawed.
    Or... I dunno... maybe teach young men to not be complete assholes about dating, and stop brainwashing children into believing that anal sex, breath play, s&m, bondage, and violence are "normal" sex? Why is it so hard to just fucking keep sex-ed to health and consent topics, instead of trying to inculcate children - especially female children - into being sexual objects and bimbos for the enjoyment of over-pornified boys?
    Not asking for much are you?
    NOTE: No trees were killed in the sending of this message, but a large number of electrons were terribly inconvenienced.

  7. Top | #17
    Elder Contributor
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Location
    NOT laying back and thinking of England
    Posts
    12,464
    Archived
    3,655
    Total Posts
    16,119
    Rep Power
    57
    Quote Originally Posted by Tigers! View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Emily Lake View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Politesse View Post
    Heterosexuality should be outlawed.
    Or... I dunno... maybe teach young men to not be complete assholes about dating, and stop brainwashing children into believing that anal sex, breath play, s&m, bondage, and violence are "normal" sex? Why is it so hard to just fucking keep sex-ed to health and consent topics, instead of trying to inculcate children - especially female children - into being sexual objects and bimbos for the enjoyment of over-pornified boys?
    Not asking for much are you?
    Sounds like common decency to me. Is that too much?

  8. Top | #18
    Sapere aude Politesse's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2018
    Location
    Chochenyo Territory, US
    Posts
    6,667
    Rep Power
    25
    Quote Originally Posted by Emily Lake View Post
    Or... I dunno... maybe teach young men to not be complete assholes about dating, and stop brainwashing children into believing that anal sex, breath play, s&m, bondage, and violence are "normal" sex?
    Sex education programs barely exist in the United States, at present. I don't think that's where kids learn about S & M, though. It would be better if they did, given that lessons about consent, rights, and safety would presumably also be covered. When kids only have porn and/or the Bible for a tutor, it isn't.
    "Banish me from Eden when you will, but first let me eat of the tree of knowledge."

  9. Top | #19
    Elder Contributor
    Join Date
    Aug 2011
    Location
    NOT laying back and thinking of England
    Posts
    12,464
    Archived
    3,655
    Total Posts
    16,119
    Rep Power
    57
    Quote Originally Posted by Politesse View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Emily Lake View Post
    Or... I dunno... maybe teach young men to not be complete assholes about dating, and stop brainwashing children into believing that anal sex, breath play, s&m, bondage, and violence are "normal" sex?
    Sex education programs barely exist in the United States, at present. I don't think that's where kids learn about S & M, though. It would be better if they did, given that lessons about consent, rights, and safety would presumably also be covered. When kids only have porn and/or the Bible for a tutor, it isn't.
    Those are not the only options available, even if there is not decent sex education in schools. Parents can talk to their kids, although the kids generally prefer that they not, even more than the parents prefer not. Most important parts of sex education are at home, with how people treat one another—how affection, love, respect and even anger. Then there is the whole biology parts.

  10. Top | #20
    Sapere aude Politesse's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2018
    Location
    Chochenyo Territory, US
    Posts
    6,667
    Rep Power
    25
    Quote Originally Posted by Toni View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Politesse View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Emily Lake View Post
    Or... I dunno... maybe teach young men to not be complete assholes about dating, and stop brainwashing children into believing that anal sex, breath play, s&m, bondage, and violence are "normal" sex?
    Sex education programs barely exist in the United States, at present. I don't think that's where kids learn about S & M, though. It would be better if they did, given that lessons about consent, rights, and safety would presumably also be covered. When kids only have porn and/or the Bible for a tutor, it isn't.
    Those are not the only options available, even if there is not decent sex education in schools. Parents can talk to their kids, although the kids generally prefer that they not, even more than the parents prefer not. Most important parts of sex education are at home, with how people treat one another—how affection, love, respect and even anger. Then there is the whole biology parts.
    This is something sorely lacking, and I believe it is rapidly becoming an intergenerational problem. Parents don't know what to say to their children, becuase precious little was ever taught to them either.
    "Banish me from Eden when you will, but first let me eat of the tree of knowledge."

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •